General Chat / Dating

because lets face it, The only pussy most people on this website has seen is the one they fell out of when they where born.

 

Generic "you guys hang out on the interwebs so therefore must be losers who can't score" comment.

 

#bullshit #tryingtomakeyourselffeelbetterbyaccusingpeopleofbeingthesameasyou #bighideousflappypussy

Emm no, Not generic... I think alot of it is evident after stuff relating to dating/girls/things to do with it over the years of posting by people at this website #changethenappyonyourchinafteralltheshityoujustsaid #somebodyaintgettingnoD #yourbackdoorisneglected # whatupbiatch lol

if i put mt baker on my dating page will girls like me

Try Baker Lake.

everyone has seen baker lake though its not special

Imagine.... TWO Mount Bakers!

two mount bakers gawd damn

 

LMFAO. Made my day. I look like I've been bawling my eyes out now. Thanks NE.  

 listen to robbie

Emm no, Not generic... I think alot of it is evident after stuff relating to dating/girls/things to do with it over the years of posting by people at this website

Tbh, most of the posts are by Kumba

#findyourkumba

Just tried Tinder for the very first time. Having a blast laughing at ridiculous people. Hard to get excited about other people without matches yet. But this thing is brilliant.

No... wait. I fucked up. I found out this was among my profile pictures. After a few hours. Good lord what have I done

 

Also explains the 0 matches yet. No other explanation. My other pictures are sexy

Also explains the 0 matches yet. No other explanation. My other pictures are sexy

 

 

and

 

Is she still single?

So. back to relevance

I've had this one girlfriend for 18 months now and we're really getting anxious about sex n stuff. I want it, she wants it just as much. We're both virgins and know that sex is awkward the first time but we already know about as much as possible about each other sexually. We've taken it relatively slow and have been on 3rd base forever but she's really -really- scared of getting pregnant and doesn't trust condoms. I am not going to pressure her to have sex with only condoms. She wants birth control but her doctor told her "You're too young/you can't make decisions for yourself/if you have sex you will die" even though we've been researching contraceptives/sexy stuff since June. Her close family (AKA mom, dad, siblings) are all pretty liberal and supportive, but her extensive family (AKA everybody else) are not far from abstinent celibate pure right-wing extremists, and they are all wealthy as fuck. At this point it's clear that her mother is fine with it and is very supportive, but if the rest of the family were to find out, we're not so sure.
The main thing is that I'm just pissed off because she and I are both adults (hell, I'm voting in a few weeks), so we should have the power to make our own decisions. The only hole in the operation is that we're still in high school, but that should be no reason to keep us from doin' it. There's not really any advice I can take for this situation that would make me happy, and I'm already being as patient as I can. I just hope at least one other person can understand our situation.

/rant

whats sex

Find a new doctor. Fuck that noise.

 

It's non of her extended family's business. It's not even really her parents' business, but if they know others would be upset, you just don't have to tell them. Sex is healthy when it's practiced safely.

 

You are adults, you should make your own decisions. Sex in high school is nothing new. I lost my virginity at 16 in the back of my car. The only difficult part is finding a safe place to do so. Parents that don't have sticks up their asses are nice but don't always... well, exist.

 

Regarding birth control, looking up some statistics might help. Condoms are very effective when used properly, but getting her on the pill or an IUD would make it nearly statistically impossible. Hell, even pull-out method (WHEN DONE CORRECTLY) is about 100x more effective than they tell you in school, but for good reason. However there is of course always some room for error (and not everyone's biology is the same) so you do have to plan for the worst. My current girlfriend and I agreed when we started having sex a few years ago that, in the event of a pregnancy, we would drop whatever we were doing and abort it because we cannot have that level of disruption at this point in our lives. Communication is absolutely key. If you live somewhere where Planned Parenthood does not exist, a local Health Clinic may be your best bet. But find someone who will be realistic about sex, none of that "No your penis will fly off" bullshit.

I hear wire coathangers are making a comeback?

seriously, she needs to find a new doctor, jesus christ. but yeah if ur paranoid do pill + condoms, even if its only for the peace of mind

There's a 0% chance she'll get pregnant in the butt. Just saying.

 

Also fuck condoms. Live a little...

Condoms do help the average internet user last longer than the typical 4 seconds inside a woman.

Why is her whole family involved in this? Is this a normal thing in North America? (serious question)

It can be hard to keep things like that from immediate family, especially if they'd be paying for the BC, for example, but I don't know why on earth the extended family would ever need to know.